I want to buy my girlfriend a sex toy for our anniversary (something we can both enjoy). We’re both kind of newbies when it comes to sex toy shopping. What do you suggest we start out with?
YAY for being open to using sex toys in the bedroom and for taking the journey of popping your sex toy cherry! The most non-intimidating sex toy to start out with would be a personal massage wand with several speed settings. It’s a handheld device that plugs into the wall and can be used on any part of the body. Each of you can take turns exploring the other’s body with the pulsating vibrations to bring on arousal and desire. Leave no area untouched!
Another great sex toy for first-timers is a vibrating cock ring. Trojan and Durex have created versions of the cock ring that are sold in drug stores right next to the condoms. The vibrations from the ring bring extra stimulation to the penis and help stimulate the clitoris, not only directly but also from the inside, to bring on an orgasm more quickly and strongly.
Sex dice are also a fun beginner’s sex toy to purchase because they are cheap and help usher in variety and a bit of competition in the sexual experience. One die has a command while the other has a body part. Each partner takes turns rolling the dice and performing the actions on the dice for a foreplay session that’s left up to chance and the sex gods!
If you are into kink, a beginner’s fetish bondage kit would be a perfect anniversary gift! The kits include a satin blindfold, handcuffs and a small whip for the couple that likes to take turns in domination. There are a plethora of options on the market, and once you’ve made your first purchase you will definitely be in the market for more!
You can purchase these products and more from my online adult shop at www.glamerotica101.com/shop. Don’t forget to cleanse your new toys after use with antibacterial soap or toy cleaner)
Tyomi Morgan is the founder and head writer of the sex education blog, Glamerotica101. You can keep up with Tyomi on Glamerotica101.com and Twitter @GlamazonTyomi.
