I’ve recently started seeing someone who’s eight years older than me. I don’t think she’s exactly a cougar. She’s very attractive, and we have a lot of fun together. The thing is, she’s a lot more experienced than me sexually, and I’m concerned that I might not be doing it for her. Any tips on how to keep her happy? – Alan, via email
The best way to keep her happy is to learn about her body and to ask her what she likes. Because she has more experience than you, she can teach you how to make her feel amazing! Don’t be afraid to ask her what she likes. By doing this you put her needs first, and every woman is kept happy when you put their needs first. Having her teach you how to satisfy her will take the guessing out of the equation and make you more confident in your abilities to please her.
My girlfriend thinks I should be more spontaneous. Other than of surprising her in the shower, what can I do? – Marco, via Facebook
You have an imagination so use it! Sex is all about experimenting and having fun so create fun scenarios to spring on her without notice. Make reservations for a nice dinner in the middle of the week, and when you two get home, run a bath for her to relax and soak in, and when she’s out, give her an erotic massage that leads into passionate sex! Surprise her at work on her lunch break and have an afternoon quickie. The key is to break out of your normal routine. Get Creative!
Tyomi Morgan is the founder and head writer of the sex education blog, Glamerotica101. You can keep up with Tyomi on Glamerotica101.com and Twitter @GlamazonTyomi.
