My girlfriend and I want to film ourselves having sex. Any pointers on achieving the best results? – Fabian, via Facebook
The best way to achieve results is to set up a camera (or camera phone, ipad, webcam) in a place that has full view of the action but without it being as noticeable. Typically, couples who want to film themselves for the first time get camera shy if they know the red dot is on and the film is rolling, so make the recording device as conspicuous as possible. You can also use POV (point of view) filming where one person holds the camera and films the sexual act from his or her POV. Once you’ve gotten over being camera shy, the experience is extremely fun! Once it’s filmed, you can watch yourselves and choose to keep it for memories or delete it (be cautious with phones and personal devices to make sure your footage isn’t leaked online).
What is it that people like about being spanked? It can’t just be because it hurts, right? – Sam, via email
People who like being spanked get a certain pleasure or sexual arousal from feeling pain. For some people, pain really is pleasure and it turns them on to feel their nerves being stimulated in this way. There is also an arousal in the idea of being dominated and being forced into submission when being spanked – it’s called sadomasochism.
Tyomi Morgan is the founder and head writer of the sex education blog, Glamerotica101. You can keep up with Tyomi on Glamerotica101.com and Twitter @GlamazonTyomi.
